Monday, 29 July 2013



It always difficult matter when two or three people with different ways of life, be it religion, tribe or culture  decides to be roommate, the things they need for peace to always reign is to manifest patience and try to understand each other and each person we live by his belief and faith.

Now to those that crucify Sen. Yerima for marrying a 13 years old Egyptian,I am not trying to defend is action neither am I going to join you to crucify him, at least he sought for marriage with the girl rather than take her to a hotel, have a nice time with her, shut her up with money then dump her, thumbs up Sen. Yerima, I think Egypt is more advance than Nigeria and they have Human activist like us, why didn’t they themselves crucify our own Senator or will you tell me he bought his way through every Egyptian Activists then that shows that he has not broken any law from the Egyptian constitution, so please let Sen. Yerima have some peace and he was voted by his people to speak their minds and how many people from Sen. Yerima constituency have show sign of displease from his action, so that means he is representing his people and if you really want to know why I give kudos to Sen. Yerima then read about Silvio Berlusconi former Prime Minister of ITALY, Premier Silvio Berlusconi paid for sex with an under-age Moroccan teen 13 times at his villa near Milan, prosecutors have said in a document filed seeking indictments against three aides for allegedly soliciting prostitutes for the Italian leader.

It has been the practice of the northerner for a long time to give their daughter out at early age  and some have gone well while some backfire but don’t conclude yet, nothing on Earth is of hundred percent positivity so it not a crime if some of the marriages flop even marriage between grown men and women flop.

The Islamic perceptive of marriage never have anything to say with the age but it thought us that any girl that have not attain puberty should not be consume in marriages and not that the girl in question does not have a say, They are some important conditions of marriage in Islam  namely, proposal and acceptance (al-Ijaab wa alqubuul) by the bride, approval by both parents (ridaa-alwaalidayn), payment of a dowry by the groom (al-mihr) and the presence of at least two male witnesses at the ceremony (shaahidayn ‘aadilayn), now tell me how anybody right has been violated, "And they (women) have rights similar over them (Men) to what is reasonable,but men have a degree over them. And Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise." (V.2:228).

The state in which Nigeria found himself today is so pathetic that people thought are partisan either to their religion or tribe, they are some abuses on Islam that should have been address but was left unaddressed, I am sure because it has to do with a Muslim. Why everybody did remained silent when a Lagos female pupil was given 43 lashes of the cane by a heartless school principal because she put on her hijab?, don’t  try that with my sister or daughter. I thought our constitution recognized culture and religion, for those that attended Federal Government College Ijanikin Lagos they was a time when I think the Muslim teachers decided to move for  female to be allowed to wear Hijab and it went well and the Hijab was colour white with grey attach to it end and it was sold in the school store, so why should a state school decide to be ignorant of culture but please, is 43 stroke of the cane not too absurd for any offence?, where was the activist and our so called celebrities? But it saddened me more when no eyebrow was raise by the MSSN.

 Under the common law, the age at which a person is legally permitted to engage in sexual activity is below the marriageable age. In Nigeria for instance, Article 21 of the child rights act provides:

“No person under the age of 18 years is capable of contracting a valid marriage and accordingly, a marriage so contracted is null and void and of no effect whatsoever.”

On the age of consent, the criminal code act provides in section 221 that: “any person who has unlawful carnal knowledge of a girl under the age of 16 years is liable to imprisonment for 2 years, with or without caning.” Hence such a person is guilty of rape, even if the girl purported to consent.

In my religion we cherish women so much that we believe "The world and all things in it are precious, and the most precious thing in the world is a virtuous woman." (Ahmad and Muslim), how can a woman be virtue when she no longer a virgin at that age.

            The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "The seeking of knowledge is obligatory for every Muslim." - Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 74, Islam did not stop anybody from seeking knowledge; it is even a most for one to seek the right knowledge in Islam therefore early marriage doesn’t stop you from seeking knowledge infact it help in to compose and behave matured not to attend dinner parties.
Now to you Miss Stella Damascus, first let me commend your effort in trying to cause havoc in the nation with your ignorant of the issue you talk about, your scowl look was fitina , so I really couldn’t watch the video to  see and hear the way you showboat you speaking and dramatic skills but read some of your mouthy comment on the websites, please read wide and have adequate knowledge on issues you want to address, I never for once feel encourage by the life style of these entertainment stars tagged celebrity imagine IYANYA comment about an actress now the whole universe know that she is no longer a virgin, shame on you both, this is what the disgusting actress have to say; “It’s been seven months [and] I’m like a secondary virgin right now. I haven’t seen anyone, done anything”, does the world secondary virgin exist in the bible,quran or in Yoruba dictionary, Igbo dictionary  is that the lifestyle Stella want for his son and daughter or you want your daughter to shamefully roof a married man without appropriate dowry paid to you….. LWKMD .